Online dating has become very mainstream, and for many people, is the preferred way to meet someone. But when you’re 50+, online dating presents a unique set of challenges.
One issue is most dating sites have all ages present. That’s fine when it’s you that is doing the searching, but not so good when you’re out there for others to find. Your inbox gets flooded with people you have zero interest in.
Marianne found this out when she went to one of the more popular dating sites. “Listen, I want an established, mature man who wants a little romance. I’m not interested in hooking up with ‘Justin-Biceps’.
Men fare no better. Mark states “Not all 50+ guys want a 20-something model. I’m attracted to someone who wants to share a bottle of wine and a night of PBS without discussing silly drama. I’m also interested in commitment, but not necessarily marriage. Been there, done that. A woman my age is more apt to think that way as well.”
50+ Dating Sites Grow in Popularity
Both Mark and Marianne also found that the “biggest” online dating sites were very skewed towards younger people, with the 50+ options lacking. That’s why online dating sites that cater to 50+ individuals have become more popular.
There are a few of these, but the one that stood out was SilverSingles. There are a few reasons for this.
SilverSingles has a simple but surprisingly deep personality quiz. It’s really fun to take, and does a very good job at narrowing down just who you are and what you are looking for. This allows them to match you with people who not only remember the Reagan administration, but also share your personality traits.
Another excellent feature is they do not have a free option. While this could turn some folks off, it turns out that this is an excellent deterrent to those who aren’t serious. And let’s face it – 50+ singles are more serious about dating and relationships – they aren’t into “swipe right for a hookup”.
But the biggest reason SilverSingles stands out is it’s only for people 50+. It’s what they advertise, it’s right on the homepage, and it’s how they do things.
If you are 50+ and looking to try online dating, give SilverSingles a try. Your match is out there, and SilverSingles can get you together – without 20-something angst!